THE FAILURE OF FEMINISM?
with DR. PAT ALLEN
 
Episode #017

                                    MEET ARI MEISEL

Do you want a fulfilling, loving relationship? Have you ever thought about why it’s so difficult to maintain one once you’ve found it? What if our current society’s model is broken? In this episode with world-renowned author and relationship expert Dr. Pat Allen, we take a brutally honest look at how far off track men and women have gotten when it comes to our gender roles and how it has effected attraction, chemistry, and intimacy. 

Prepare yourself for some hard truths, and please be advised to leave your preconceived ideas and social conditioning behind. Dr. Allen will likely call into question some of your most cherished beliefs regarding the masculine and feminine energy positions currently accepted by most people in our modern Western culture. She’s arrived at some of her seemingly radical theories through the study and practice of hard science, as well as through her 42 years of counseling couples around the globe. She’s likely got answers to some of your most perplexing questions, so get ready to learn the game of love with a healthy dose of 'tough love.’ 


“Women don’t have to reverse their masculine dominance, they have to know when to carry the balls and when not to carry them. By the by ladies, leave your fake balls at the office. When you go home, if you wanna be a man, ok be one. But only be it with a man that wants to be your woman”

”18% of our homes are headed up with men. There’s nothing wrong with a man being the homemaker. And there’s nothing wrong with a woman being the breadwinner. But they have to negotiate it”

”Equality in love affairs destroys intimacy”

”A woman feels respected by having her feelings cherished”

”A man feels cherished by being respected”

“The men are dying because they are not being respected by the women in our culture”
— DR. PAT ALLEN

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EPISODE BREAKDOWN

  • Why divorce rate is so high in the U.S. 
  • Who recovers from a heartbreak faster, women or men? And why
  • Why men get sensitive with age: estrogen over testosterone 
  • Today's gender role confusion 
  • Men who desire to be the man in a relationship, the old-fashion way, still possible? 
  • 3 styles of relationships
  • Mail order brides and cultures where women are pre-ordained to be feminine 
  • When women carry the balls and when they shouldn't 
  • Mind-altering chemicals and how it affects genders differently 
  • Communication tools, leading vs feeling, left lobe
  • Men's oath to the cherishing of women's feelings 
  • Monogamy, the myth
  • Communication tools continued 
  • How can men and women learn to improve intimacy: chemistry, compatibility, communication 
  • The 3 things we all need: someone to love, something to do, something to look forward to 
  • Lifestyle recommendations

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CREDITS

Intro music: Jeordie White
Show notes: Tati Melo
Sound editing: Brian Parra


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