Matthew Hussey is a New York Times bestselling author, speaker, and coach specializing in confidence and relational intelligence. His YouTube channel is number one in the world for love life advice, with over half a billion views. He writes a weekly newsletter and is the host of the podcast Love Life With Matthew Hus­sey. Hussey provides monthly coaching to the members of his private community at LoveLifeClub.com. Over the past 15 years, his proven approach has inspired millions through authentic, insightful, and practical advice that not only enables them to find love, but also feel confident and in control of their own happiness. He lives in Los Angeles.

If you’re curious about how to approach the modern dating landscape and what is truly essential for a successful partnership, today’s guest has you covered. Matthew Hussey is not only a New York Times bestselling author and the #1 love life coach on YouTube, but he's also someone who has revolutionized the way we approach relationships and personal confidence. 

With over half a billion views on his channel, Matthew continues to change lives with his profound insights on love, life, and happiness.

In this episode, we cut through the noise about modern dating and laser in on what’s really important in cultivating a strong relationship. Matthew and I explore the common hurdles that many face in seeking relationships that truly align with their desires for peace and fulfillment.

We discuss a prevalent myth surrounding the role of common interests in partnerships and how embracing acceptance can dramatically expand your romantic horizons. Matthew also shares the core values that he believes are the backbone of any successful relationship, and what aspects you can afford to be flexible on.

He also shares a sneak peek into his latest book – which is available TODAY – Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What).

Expect to also hear about the importance of relational intelligence, the power of authenticity in love, and how to maintain a sense of control over your happiness. Don’t miss this enlightening discussion that’s sure to enrich your perspective on love and its role in your life.

 
 

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(00:00:31) Uncovering the Layers of Modern Dating Challenges

(00:16:58) Are Common Interests Really Important in Dating?

  • Advice for people who are dating in an environment with people who don't share the same interests or values

  • Exploring whether or not shared interests is in fact important in a romantic relationship

  • Why you might want to reevaluate the criteria of your potential partner 

  • Catching tendencies for judgment in evaluating others’ experiences

(00:31:00) The Power of Acceptance in Dating

  • Why it can be good to have different paths and backgrounds from your partner 

  • How acceptance plays into the capacity for intimacy and feeling safe

  • Why questioning your instincts can be helpful in dating 

  • Why we’re wired to chase the wrong things & mistake chemistry for trauma bonds

(00:41:12) Exploring the Key Fundamentals of A Successful Partnership

  • The four levels of importance in any relationship 

  • The myth of unrequited love 

  • How to determine fundamental compatibility 

  • The biggest indicator of if a relationship is going to work or not 

  • The importance of finding someone who understands how you think

  • Viewing relationships as a vehicle for growth

(01:01:32) Helping Women Become More Confident in Dating

  • How and why his work resonates more with women

  • Busting the myth of how to know if someone is into you or not 

  • What Matthew has learned about women and dating over the last 15+ years

  • Lessons from growing up with his mother and aunt

  • The main pain points in dating he aims to address in his book

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